MALE MENOPAUSE: INTRODUCTION (PRELUDE AND STIMULATION)
Many, heterosexual or homosexual, can never have enough sex whatever their age. They are insatiable and enjoy variety. It flatters the ego, feeds their innate sense of masculinity and makes them feel good. Around forty this lust is hardly diminished. A man may take a little bit longer to come to orgasm than he did at twenty and perhaps his ejaculation is a little less powerful but his desire remains as strong as ever. In fact taking a little longer time during sex may make him a better lover: his orgasm is likely to be more intense and his partner will
probably appreciate the longer lasting erection.
By forty a man will also have developed his own specific tastes as a prelude and as stimulation for sexual pleasure. Some enjoy a romantic candle-lit dinner to set the scene, others prefer to snatch their pleasures illicitly in the heat of a summer’s afternoon after a good lunch. Many indulge in fantasy, playing out roles or dressing up and using toys, bondage and other devices. For others part of the pleasure is paying for it, buying sex and a few can only enjoy frenzied sex treating their partner roughly as they take their pleasure fast, selfishly, like a man possessed. To each his own. As a London therapist says:
‘As long as it is pleasure and no one gets hurt anything goes and is good for you.’
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