INFERTILITY AND THE CONTRACEPTIVE CONSULTATION – INSTANCE
Mrs H. had hidden the nonconsummation of their marriage for eight years. She had requested repeat prescriptions for the Pill, avoided examinations by having a period or a pressing engagement, and had also moved house and general practitioner (GP) on several occasions. Eventually she plucked up courage to approach her new female doctor, saying that she wanted to have a baby and thought it sensible to have a smear before stopping the Pill. She did not mention the lack of intercourse.
The doctor noticed the hesitancy in her preparation to get on to the couch and remove her underwear for the examination. She looked like a young girl, despite her 28 years, rather like a china doll with neatly parted and waved hair, no make-up and wearing a summer dress with puffed sleeves. She sat up on the couch with her arms clutching her knees and to the doctor’s comment about her apparent reluctance to be examined she began to talk about the lack of penetration in their sex life. Nobody had asked her about sex before and if they had the answer would have been ‘it is all right’, for they did enjoy a degree of intimacy when she achieved an orgasm with manual stimulation. It was only now that they wanted a baby that the situation had become a problem.
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